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Monday, June 11, 2007
 
In Order, Out of Context, Mis-quoted

From this article on loners:

She just strongly prefers not to socialize.
She does have good, close friends.
But afterward feels a strong need to "hide and recoup."
In our society, loners are pegged as creepy or pathetic.
But soloists can function just fine in the world; they simply prefer traveling through their own interior universe.
Loners tend to focus more on their own ideas and on stimuli that don't register in the minds of others.
Social engagement drains them.
Some people simply have a low need for affiliation.
Opted out of a career as a lawyer because he didn't feel socially on-the-ball enough for the job's daily demands.
Has a small circle of friends, but prefers to dine solo.
Few studies have shown a correlation between creativity, originality, and introversion, perhaps more striking is the greater enjoyment introverts seem to reap from creative endeavors.
Socially withdrawn people have increased sensitivity to emotional interactions and sensory cues.
They find pleasure where others do not.
During social situations, the brains of loners experience lively blood flow, indicating overstimulation.
The content introverts' camp closely borders the land of the socially anxious.
She grew much more confident in her 20s.
Those who remain "enforced loners" long to spend time with people, but shyness and anxiety inhibit them from doing so.
Loners have several stress-inducing strikes against them.
Loners are also less likely to seek out social support.


You get the gist.